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Sex Tips for the Rest of Us – The Look and Sound of Desire

04 Feb 2010

4 Feb, 2010 Sexuality

Most sex tips I read don’t apply to me at all. They assume too much, about my body, about my gender, about what I want from sex. I could go on, and on. But instead, over the years, I’ve been compiling sex ideas that try not to assume or expect too much. I call them sex tips for the rest of us.

Some, but not all of us, are aware when something turns us on. We might find ourselves just slightly more tuned in, or note a change in our bodies. It might be sudden and shocking or slow and subtle. Whether you’re aware of it or not, how often do you spend time thinking about why something turns you on? What it is, specifically, that gets you hot? And when was the last time you shared those thoughts with a partner?

This sex tip takes a week to prepare and then at least an hour to do. Once you’ve agreed on a week (one that hopefully doesn’t have extra commitments) during that week, try to pay attention, as often as you can, to things you find arousing. You can be intentional about it and go online, buy some magazines, watch some movies, to seek out images and sounds that you find hot. But you should also do this during the course of your day. On a lunch break watching people around you, listening to the radio or reading the newspaper, in store windows and shopping malls. Wherever you are, what ever you’re doing, try for to pay a little closer attention to things that turn you on throughout the week.

Read the complete sex tip for the rest of us: Sharing Sexy Pictures and Sounds